Realize that you are a sinner. (Rom 3:23) For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Realize that God loves you. (Rom 5:8) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Realize that your sin has separated you from Jesus Christ, and that Jesus has paid your sin debt. (Rom 6:23) For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Realize that you must confess your sin. (Rom 10:9) That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
Realize that you must call or ask Jesus to saved you. (Rom 10:13) For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.